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Lessons learned from volunteering

Volunteering is a lot more fun than it sounds. It sounds vaguely similar to community service, and has a vague air of paying a sort of penance for your sins. This, my friends, is not the idea. Nobody’s going to make you serve tea to old ladies, or pick up rubbish from the town centre, unless that’s what you’ve chosen to do. Whatever it is that you like to do, there is likely to be an opportunity where you can put your skills and interests to good use, all while actually enjoying yourself. Don’t let anyone trick you into thinking that volunteering is boring, or something that people only do when they’re retired. Everyone can do it and everyone can enjoy it.

If you can’t find the money, find the time. It’s common to equate any kind of volunteering with gap-year type activities, where you go to Africa and dig wells. That kind of volunteering has its value and place, but it’s not the only way you can help, and it can get quite pricey. So if you don’t have the money to do anything like that, maybe you have the time to do something just as useful but on a smaller scale, in your own local area. For people who are unable to travel any distance at all for a volunteer activity, there are many things you can do from home. If you’re really strapped for time as well as cash, there are also many micro-volunteering opportunities, which can easily be completed any time you half an hour spare – or less.

Just because it’s unpaid, doesn’t mean it’s a charitable act. I turned down a volunteering opportunity after I realised that a big part of it involved working as a receptionist. For absolutely no money. It’s quite hard to know where to draw the line when it comes to volunteer activities, especially when you feel like you don’t have a lot of power to barter with. For this reason, it’s incredibly easy to get taken advantage of. Now I’m not suggesting that unpaid reception work is exploitative, but it is not something that I wanted to do without being paid. It was not something I could do in my spare time – there were going to be shifts and rotas. I won’t name any names but the organisation in question, though not-for-profit, certainly makes enough money to pay reception staff. And, in my view, it should pay reception staff. So, the lesson learned is that not everything unpaid is a charitable act. Sometimes you have to set your own boundaries so that your volunteering experience is helpful to everyone involved, including you.

By Midori (Own work) [GFDL (http://www.gnu.org/copyleft/fdl.html) or CC-BY-3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

You’ll probably get some tea and coffee and biscuits out of it as well, which is always a good thing. (Top tip: you also get free hot drinks and biscuits if you donate blood. You can thank me later.)

I found volunteer opportunities through Do-it and Vinspired, as well as looking out for things locally and asking people if they needed a hand with these things, and so on. I recently discovered United Nations Online Volunteering as well.


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Good Things 009

Two nights in a row I have gone to sleep feeling as though I may turn into a block of ice at any given moment, and two mornings in a row I have woken up feeling scratchy-throated and sniffly-nosed. In an attempt to not be a maungy ill person, here are some good things that don’t involve a tickly cough.

  1. My new favourite breakfast. I don’t know where this breakfast has been all my life, or why I have yet to photograph its stunning beauty. Step one: chop some vegetables of your choice. My choice is some combination of courgette, mushroom, red onion and pepper. Chop some bacon (optional – but gooooooooood). Heat some oil in a small saucepan and throw everything in. Step two: crack two eggs into a bowl and whisk them with some milk – butter, cream, cream cheese all optional but again, very good. Step three: when the vegetables and bacon are nearly ready, turn the heat down and tip the egg into the pan. Stir it around inside the pan to scramble it. Step four: serve on the bread of your choice (an English muffin) and smother with Frank’s Red Hot Sauce. The sauce isn’t necessary but you’d be pretty foolish to miss it out.
  2. Volunteering. I know, I’m turning into one of those people who won’t shut up about all the volunteer work they’re doing. As well as other responsibilities, I’m helping out as part of the Communications team at Brimham Rocks. It’s a truly wonderful place and I’m very excited to get to work on all manner of things including their website, social media presence, events and promotions. I also love volunteering because it gives me an excuse to eat six biscuits and drink two cups of coffee in 3 hours.
  3. The Year of the Flood by Margaret Atwood. I am loving this book. As per a Twitter suggestion by MJ I decided to download it to my Kindle. I’m so excited to be reading Atwood again; I’ve read a few of her other novels and I don’t know why I’ve spent so many years not reading anything else by her.

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A few weekends ago I went to a beer festival and won all manner of weird and wonderful things on a tombola, including (but not limited to) a cat toy (as seen above, attached to my wrist), a door handle and a stack of magazines with titles such as ‘Coin Collector’s Weekly’. I also found a wheat beer that I fell head over heels in love with and now I can’t remember what it was called other than ‘weissbier’ which isn’t particularly helpful.

Tell me about all the good things that are happening in your life!

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